We Are All We Have

by Marina Budhos

Grades 5-8 Educator Guide

Dear Educators,

We Are All We Have is a gripping young adult fiction novel for teens, set in the year 2019, when seventeen-year-old protagonist, Rania, and her family seek asylum in the U.S. from Pakistan. But the impact of the 2018 U.S. Immigration policies leads to the separation of Rania’s family when Ammi, her single mother, is suddenly taken into detention by U.S. Immigration and Customs Enforcement (ICE), forcing Rania to navigate a path for survival for herself and for her younger brother, Kamal. Rania must negotiate her teenage life–being a senior in high school and hanging out with Fatima, her best friend—with a life of grown-up responsibilities and decision-making around survival, all while grappling with family relationships, judgment from others, new love, and a yearning to be free, to belong, and to hold onto her dreams. Rania seeks to understand others and finds her voice to ask questions; she uncovers family stories her mother had hidden from her for protection. She experiences the search for sanctuary; the open road; and her first romance with Carlos who allows her to feel understood. Through safety and understanding, Rania’s memories return; she faces the trauma of her past in order to add voice to their asylum case and to protect their family’s future.

In this coming of age story, readers follow Rania’s journey as she seeks safety, visibility, her place in the world, and all the parts of her story that make her whole; they confront the impact of immigration policies on real lives. Readers experience the universal themes of survival; freedom; protection; identity; trust, and hope. In addition, students explore concepts related to family, sense of belonging, and the amplification of marginalized voices. This layered novel also inspires conversations about human and civil rights; a multicultural, multiracial world; transformative America, and the lived experiences of asylum-seekers and undocumented teens.

These teaching ideas align with the Common Core State Standards for English Language Arts and History and Social Studies for grades 5-8.

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Content of these Core Curriculum Lesson Plans was created by Dr. Jennifer M. Bogard, a former elementary school teacher who currently teaches educators at Lesley University in the Integrated Teaching Through the Arts Program. She is passionate about teaching through the arts and co-authors books about integrating the arts for educators of K-12 classrooms. Jennifer’s doctoral studies focused on sociology of the family; school and family engagement; and reading pedagogy.

Sample of Activity Ideas:
  1. Ammi teaches Rania that it is important to ask questions. Have students write interview questions for a family member. Include topics such as favorite family foods or recipes passed down through generations; songs and how they are important to family members; special books; art forms or crafts and other traditions. Invite students to ask their family members if they give permission to record them, and if so, they might use a digital tool such as Audacity to record their answers and create an oral history.
  2. Ra-Ra and Fa-Fa rewrite and perform Jack Kerouac’s On the Road by bringing in themselves: their identities, hopes, dreams, and questions on their own “wild road trip to find America” (10). Using resources such as Poets.org; Poetry Foundation; or the school or community library, have them locate a poem that they see themselves in or write their own. Invite them to perform the poem as Spoken Word Poetry. Begin by sharing and discussing videos of Spoken Word Poetry from collections such as Project V.O.I.C.E. (http://www.projectvoice.co/
  3. Have students choose a character and create a visual to represent the character’s internal landscape (hopes, dreams, fears, motivations, traits, personality, inner conflicts and struggles) in addition to the external forces at play, including societal and global factors. Students might choose to create an abstract or realistic representation of the character. Ask them to write a journal entry to explore the layers of character.
  4. Invite students to curate a box of items and symbols to show what is important to them and to their identities. Encourage them to think about ideas they might keep in a “locked box” or hidden from others and ideas they show the world and why.
  5. Learn about Marina Budhos and the historical context for the story by visiting her website: https://marinabudhos.com and sampling from the featured interviews on We Are All We Have.
  • Discuss: What is important to Marina Budhos?
  • What does the author speak up for? How is she an activist?
  • Listen to the ghazals/songs and consider their impact and meaning to the story.
  • What is the historical context for the story?
  1. Ask students to work in small groups to choose a key scene in the text and portray it through tableau (frozen statue).
  • Each small group creates a tableau, positioning their bodies as frozen statues to represent the action of characters in the key scene.
  • Groups might consider having one student read the key passage during the performance of the tableau.
  • As the group performs, invite the rest of the class (the audience) to brainstorm scenes in the book that come to mind while viewing the tableau.
  • For more information on tableaux, view videos at BRAINworks: https://www.brainworks.mcla.edu/curriculum-center or on the Alliance Theatre Institute’s virtual resources for teachers.
  • Students might instead decide to explore a developing theme. They might infer themes such as freedom; protection; identity; hidden truth; survival; identity; trust; safety; disappearing and appearing; family; sense of belonging and use tableau to represent the theme in a symbolic way.
  1. Challenge students to work in small groups to find a powerful way to show, through visual art, music, movement, storytelling, poetry, or drama, the concepts of disappearing and appearing/restoring and moving from one to the other. Have them consider the idea of a whole story and parts of a story.
  • Ideas include: creating a large puzzle of pieces that represent various aspects of a character’s whole story; designing a mask and exploring when a character figuratively wears the mask and why; creating a dance of movements to show appearing and disappearing, enacting a scene or other.
  1. Invite students to create an I am From poem to explore their own identities and who they are in the world. Begin by listening to George Ella Lyon read her poem Where I’m From on her author website: http://www.georgeellalyon.com/where.html. Challenge students to write an I am From poem from the perspective of Rania, Ammi, Carlos, Fatima, Kamal, or a supporting character in the text such as Lidia or Salim Uncle.
  2. Invite students to explore their local communities to find institutions that provide help and serve as sanctuaries for immigrants/asylum seekers. Ask students to create interview questions to research volunteerism and how people make a difference.
  3. Have students communicate their own hopes and dreams through altered books. Begin by sharing examples and demonstrations such as the following video: https://theartofeducation.edu/videos/video-simple-and-beautiful-altered-book-techniques-for-the-classroom/
Discussion Questions:
  1. What do Rania and Fatima want out of their senior year? What do they want out of life? How do they express themselves? Why do you think they are friends? Why do they drift apart?
  2. Items from the book serve as symbols: Cape Cod Lighthouse (143), bangle bracelet (12); locked box (49; 68; 190); highway (cover); statue of liberty (67); roads (32); Carlos’ tattoo. Discuss: What does each items symbolize and how are they important to the story?
  3. How does Rania grow and change over the course of the story? What experiences and people impact her growth?
  4. Describe Rania’s relationship with her mother. In your opinion, what is the most important lesson Rania’s mother teaches her?
  5. Do you agree with Ammi’s approach to protecting Kamal and Rania by not telling them the full truth and/or lying at times? Why or why not?
  6. Characters keep certain things hidden throughout the story (objects, emotions, secrets, stories of the past, memories, people). Parts of the truth are kept tight in figurative locked boxes. Why do characters do this? In what ways does this hurt or help characters?
  7. Do the characters ever get to experience childhood? Or are they always dealing with grown-up responsibilities and issues?
  8. What is a key theme in the text and why? Consider evidence for the themes of protection; identify; family; trust; sense of belonging; survival; freedom, hope and more.
  9. What are some instances in your own life when you have been lucky or unlucky? How does the author bring up the idea of things being unfair for the characters?
  10. How do the arts create community, identity and amplify marginalized voices? Consider Rania’s poetry; gazelles/songs; Carlos’ visual art and more. How do the arts make visible the invisible?
Author Questions:
  1. What is the significance of the title and what was your process for choosing it?

My editor and I were searching for at title and as we combed through the manuscript this phrase really spoke to us.  For these characters, living with so much uncertainty, what they have is each other.  Rania has her brother, then Carlos, even Fatima, and it is in holding on to each other that they can survive and discover and grow. Rania’s mother also says something similar to her daughter—that in giving up everything in Pakistan, now Rania and Kamal are all she has.

  1. What do you imagine Rania is doing now, in today’s world? Has she restored all the parts of her whole self or is she still searching?

She is still searching. She knows more of who she is and the circumstances that led to her and her mother fleeing Pakistan; she knows more about her father; and most of all, she knows the cost to her mother in making her choices.  Armed with her new knowledge, Rania’s figuring out her own place in the world, and able to be a part of her mother’s fight to stay in the USA.